guys I slept with 0

Should I tell him with how many guys I slept with before we met? Pros and cons!

Should I tell him with how many guys I slept with before we met; “I never talk about my sexual past unless men ask, and then I ask, ‘Are you sure you want my past to be your present?’”. Julia “Anyone who is too intrigued and observes the work of bees will often be stung because of his curiosity.” Alexander Pop “Ignorance is a blessing.” Thomas Gray Curiosity, which is based on the desire to acquire additional knowledge, is an essential feature of human life. There is a long philosophical tradition that sees knowing as a key to moral behavior...

improve your marriage 0

5 bold decisions that will improve your marriage in the coming year

improve your marriage; A new year is an opportunity to decide that this time we will invest more in our relationship, and that we are willing to give a lot of ourselves to make it happen. All the ways to make your relationship better and healthier than ever and improve your marriage. We are constantly telling ourselves that it is time to take responsibility for our lives, fight routines and habits and take another step towards the life we ​​wanted for ourselves. As a couple counselor, I see every day how much the relationship has the power to make us...

Falling in love with an older spouse 0

Falling in love with an older spouse: a choice or a problem?

Falling in love with an older spouse; He is smart, funny and deep, you have great communication and common interests, and you have not felt this way for a long time to a man. The only problem, it seems, is that he is twenty years older than you and your dreams of marriage and children no longer really speak to him. If this is not the first time you have found yourself in this situation, you may have already had time to ask yourself what the pattern of falling in love with men older than you is and whether or...

Romantic jealousy 0

Romantic jealousy – is it a lovely compliment or is it dangerous?

Romantic jealousy in marital relationships;“With his very last strength … he collapsed on the doorstep of the pharmacist’s house, and when he went outside, he told him that someone had stuck a sword in his head. “A personal illness that has no cure and early signs and every person who suffers from it is doomed to seek its own long term.” Elijah, who is morbidly jealous of his wife and does not even allow her to stand by the window of the house, is an extreme example of the destructive power of romantic jealousy. Most jealousy relationships are not that...

Dealing with Breakup 0

7 Tips for Dealing with Breakup

Dealing with breakup; On the face of it, the answer to the question of why a breakup is such a shaky and painful event in our lives is clear: a breakup expresses the end of a close and important relationship in our lives, leaves us alone and often leaves feelings of missing out, frustration and pain. Although we feel we are grieving and hurting the end of the relationship with the specific spouse, in practice we grieve and experience anxiety about many other aspects: We are filled with anxiety and uncertainty about the lifestyle change that grows as the relationship...

Fights in married life 0

Fights in married life – Honey, do you feel like fighting today at 8?

Fights in married life; Once upon a time, ten years ago, three children and a mortgage, everything was simpler: you would say to him “Honey, let’s jump to my parents” and you would go even if it was Manchester-Liverpool match, and when you asked him to take the dog instead of you he happily agreed and even more – prepared for you Coffee on the go. So what has changed now, when every such request leads to a fight? Are you and him another classic case of material fatigue? Disagreements: A Spice in a Recipe for a Good Relationship? “Next...

decision to seperate 0

Decision to separate: How the hell you inform your spouse about it?

How do you inform your spouse about the decision to separate; Decision to separate No hostility and knives are needed to reach a breakup. It is enough to go to bed and wake up, accompanied by a feeling of loneliness and the nagging question – is this situation the best it can be? It is a process that develops, until at the end of the process, one of the spouses comes to the conclusion that he does not want to continue on the common path. Sometimes the conclusion comes during a treatment process and sometimes independently. In both cases, there...

sex anxiety 0

Experiencing sex anxiety? There is something to do!

Sex Anxiety; Do you want to. You really want a loving and supportive spouse who will be a charming and devoted father to your children in the future. The only thing that stands in your way, it seems, is anxiety about sex that prevents you from forming marital relationships (because what will happen when we get to bed?) Or causes frustrations and difficulties in the current marital relationship. why is it happening? How does sex anxiety develop and how is it dealt with? What are we talking about when we talk about sex anxiety? Sex is considered a fun and...

Maintaining Passion in a Relationship 0

3 Secrets to Maintaining Passion in a Relationship

3 Secrets to maintaining passion in a relationship is a frequent subject we get asked about a lot; When you first met you could not take your hands off each other, but today, after a few years together, that passion seems to have disappeared? Do you find yourself less interested in sex, less excited about it and your partner less aroused in you? If so – you are not alone. Most couples experience a significant decrease in desire, enjoyment of sex and the amount of sexual activity throughout their relationship. But – it turns out that desire does not have...

Dealing with difficulties in sexual function 0

Dealing with difficulties in sexual function

Dealing with difficulties in sexual function; Jason is perceived by his friends as a “sworn bachelor”, “revelry”, “Don Juan”, who goes from girl to girl and is not interested in finding one and settling down. Sandra’s friends have already given up on her, because she is always dissolved in dating options and shows no motivation to sign up for the dating site. Both Jason and Sandra are intelligent and talented young people who succeed in many areas of life, and it is difficult for their family and friends to imagine that the source of their ongoing bachelorhood is barely sexual...