Category: Marriage

improve your marriage 0

5 bold decisions that will improve your marriage in the coming year

improve your marriage; A new year is an opportunity to decide that this time we will invest more in our relationship, and that we are willing to give a lot of ourselves to make it happen. All the ways to make your relationship better and healthier than ever and improve your marriage. We are constantly telling ourselves that it is time to take responsibility for our lives, fight routines and habits and take another step towards the life we ​​wanted for ourselves. As a couple counselor, I see every day how much the relationship has the power to make us...

Romantic jealousy 0

Romantic jealousy – is it a lovely compliment or is it dangerous?

Romantic jealousy in marital relationships;“With his very last strength … he collapsed on the doorstep of the pharmacist’s house, and when he went outside, he told him that someone had stuck a sword in his head. “A personal illness that has no cure and early signs and every person who suffers from it is doomed to seek its own long term.” Elijah, who is morbidly jealous of his wife and does not even allow her to stand by the window of the house, is an extreme example of the destructive power of romantic jealousy. Most jealousy relationships are not that...

Dealing with Breakup 0

7 Tips for Dealing with Breakup

Dealing with breakup; On the face of it, the answer to the question of why a breakup is such a shaky and painful event in our lives is clear: a breakup expresses the end of a close and important relationship in our lives, leaves us alone and often leaves feelings of missing out, frustration and pain. Although we feel we are grieving and hurting the end of the relationship with the specific spouse, in practice we grieve and experience anxiety about many other aspects: We are filled with anxiety and uncertainty about the lifestyle change that grows as the relationship...

Fights in married life 0

Fights in married life – Honey, do you feel like fighting today at 8?

Fights in married life; Once upon a time, ten years ago, three children and a mortgage, everything was simpler: you would say to him “Honey, let’s jump to my parents” and you would go even if it was Manchester-Liverpool match, and when you asked him to take the dog instead of you he happily agreed and even more – prepared for you Coffee on the go. So what has changed now, when every such request leads to a fight? Are you and him another classic case of material fatigue? Disagreements: A Spice in a Recipe for a Good Relationship? “Next...

decision to seperate 0

Decision to separate: How the hell you inform your spouse about it?

How do you inform your spouse about the decision to separate; Decision to separate No hostility and knives are needed to reach a breakup. It is enough to go to bed and wake up, accompanied by a feeling of loneliness and the nagging question – is this situation the best it can be? It is a process that develops, until at the end of the process, one of the spouses comes to the conclusion that he does not want to continue on the common path. Sometimes the conclusion comes during a treatment process and sometimes independently. In both cases, there...

Maintaining Passion in a Relationship 0

3 Secrets to Maintaining Passion in a Relationship

3 Secrets to maintaining passion in a relationship is a frequent subject we get asked about a lot; When you first met you could not take your hands off each other, but today, after a few years together, that passion seems to have disappeared? Do you find yourself less interested in sex, less excited about it and your partner less aroused in you? If so – you are not alone. Most couples experience a significant decrease in desire, enjoyment of sex and the amount of sexual activity throughout their relationship. But – it turns out that desire does not have...

Keeping the marriage going 0

Keeping the marriage going – 6 Strong Tips

Keeping the marriage going; Dr. Jeffrey Arnett of Clark University (ClD University), surveyed over 1,000 young people aged 18-29, and found that 86% of them estimate that they will be married forever. In practice, findings show that in the US 52 % Of women and 65% are divorcing. Why does the hope that characterizes many of us live forever with a choice for our son turn out to be blind optimism? Psychologists are currently conducting longitudinal studies involving thousands of pairs, in an attempt to clarify the picture. Stable marriage – is it in our hands? According to Dr. Arthur...

How to keep the spark in your relationship? 0

How to keep the spark in your relationship? 3 Major tips!

How to keep the spark in your relationship? That’s quite a common question we get asked frequently; To keep the fire burning you need to take care of it – place the trees in the right place, add combustibles and ventilate the flame. Dealing with attention to fire prevents it from turning off and keeps it “alive.” Much like lighting a fire, this is the secret to keeping the spark in your relationship! The excitement that accompanies a new relationship causes us to be fascinated by our spouses. We can spend hours looking at them, feeling the need to be...

How to love your husband after he cheated 0

How to love your husband after he cheated

We get a lot of “How to love your husband after he cheated” questions, let’s discuss it; Dealing with infidelity in a marital relationship Greek mythology, the Bible and some of the great literary works describe the cruel consequences of the act of betrayal: murder, suicide and punishments from heaven are often described as the inevitable consequences of betrayal, and often the traitor are both condemned to a life of remorse and loneliness. From an early age, infidelity is not uncommon nowadays, and many couples who turn to couple therapy turn to the background of infidelity. Most professionals will agree...

Falling in love with an older spouse 0

How Do I Know If My Husband Still Loves Me? 12 ways to know!

How do I know if my husband still loves me is a question we get quite often; To keep the flame of passion burning in a long relationship one has to make a certain effort. Most of the time, after several decades of living together we forget to show our spouses how much we value, cherish and love them, but there are still a few small things that can make an entire marriage life happier and more fulfilling. If your partner is still making these 14 little gestures, you may know that they are still in love with you just...